Keeping your options open dating
My dating method is to not get in a rush about deciding anything prematurely.While I generally have a clear cut response in if someone has impressed me or is wasting both of our time often in the first several minutes of in person contact if the answer is it just isn't going to "take" and I try to be gracious about it but not pretend it oit Because I tend to avoid long marathon dates; especially ones that are formal and expensive I have rarely had someone complain. Is it unfair to be stringing the other person a long while you keep looking..I wouldn't kill my online profiles but I may not go to the sites.
Even know you explained your position to them clearly..
My attention is on her and us and what we are experiencing. No matter who you ultimately "choose" to be the one, there will always be someone "better." That's why commitment matters.
Even if I have doubts about us I wait until I am sure before moving on. That's why relationships need some kind of purpose (family/support system) to survive past the first few stages of chemical bonding related to mating. )(someone you thought had their **** together).'hmmmm' factor..
If I commit to an engagement or full blown relationship then there is no need of online dating and the sites go bye-bye.
I know that when I am out with someone in a dating capacity I am not looking or engaged in flirtation with anyone else.