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If it were me, it wouldn't be long before I would lose all respect for the mother (your lady) and become totally disenchanted with her.On the other hand, perhaps it is too soon after the divorce, and her daughter feels a certain loyalty to her dad and is trying to drive you out of the picture, or she just wants her mom all to herself.This allows them to feel less guilty for the poor parenting job they've done. Too bad that law in NE (I think) is over with because if society's gonna tell you how to raise your children then you should be able to deliver the results at the society's door (I'm referring to the alarming number of teens parents were leaving). Sometimes kids are just bad kids and sometimes parents are just bad parents. But in my opinion a good spanking will cure alot of these "diagnosed behavior problems." Let the crucifixtion of Capt. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. Over ,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. If you don't see eye-to-eye on how to deal with the kids, then your life is going to be misery. She needs firm and loving discipline from both parties in the relationship. If the BF wasn't able to provide a sense of partnership, then you were right to walk away.Personally I think alot of parents with unruly kids go out of thier way to attach some diagnosis to thier kids behavior. Kids are kids and supposed to behave as such; only that somebody has to take responsibility and raise them right instead of stuffing them with pills.If we have plans to go out it has to be approved by the little princess.If I end up going over for dinner without "prior approval" the daughter sometimes heaps guilt on mom until the whole evening is ruined.
Even if it was their ex being the cause of the child's unruly behaviour, it's just a bad situation all around for the outside adult in this sort of situation because we have no rights in trying to help the child out in terms of disciplining the child or trying to reason with them.
On all counts, I would stop hanging around when she has her daughter and limit it to times when she's at her father's.
That will help with your own sanity, and, maybe the lack of love life for the mother will be the lesson she needs to learn to start being the right kind of mother to her child.
This allows them to feel less guilty for the poor parenting job they've done. And even though many parents are lazy and prefer being "friends" instead of parents and take the path of least resistance, it's not only their fault.
Sometimes kids are just bad kids and sometimes parents are just bad parents. But in my opinion a good spanking will cure alot of these "diagnosed behavior problems." Let the crucifixtion of Capt. Personally I think alot of parents with unruly kids go out of thier way to attach some diagnosis to thier kids behavior. Their hands are tied unless they want to end up in jail for instilling some discipline.